OK touchy subject this but, hopefully I can be tactful enough (first for everything) in this post for us to maybe debate it...
I think the club is either doing too much for Ray's memory OR not enough for Kiyans memory. The reason I say this is because of the circumstances...Ray tragically died in a car accident which was of his own doing; Kiyan was tragically murdered after an act of bravery from himself.
Now, I personally have no issues with the retiring of the number 31 shirt, the award given in his name or Ray still be listed as a squad player. I do think though that if we're doing that in Ray's memory that we should be doing something as worthwhile/high profile in Kiyans memory. I know that Ray was in the first team squad and that Kiyan wasnt but the importance of the player to the club can be counter balanced with the circumstances to which they both died.
What are your thoughts on this? I've been thinking about it for a while and I had a chat with a fellow fan a couple of weeks ago who thought we shouldnt be listing Ray as a player anymore (not something I agree with)...that combined with someone on dot.org mentioning it today made me think it's maybe time that we can have the discussion.
RIP to both of them though - they wont be forgotten
I think the club is either doing too much for Ray's memory OR not enough for Kiyans memory. The reason I say this is because of the circumstances...Ray tragically died in a car accident which was of his own doing; Kiyan was tragically murdered after an act of bravery from himself.
Now, I personally have no issues with the retiring of the number 31 shirt, the award given in his name or Ray still be listed as a squad player. I do think though that if we're doing that in Ray's memory that we should be doing something as worthwhile/high profile in Kiyans memory. I know that Ray was in the first team squad and that Kiyan wasnt but the importance of the player to the club can be counter balanced with the circumstances to which they both died.
What are your thoughts on this? I've been thinking about it for a while and I had a chat with a fellow fan a couple of weeks ago who thought we shouldnt be listing Ray as a player anymore (not something I agree with)...that combined with someone on dot.org mentioning it today made me think it's maybe time that we can have the discussion.
RIP to both of them though - they wont be forgotten
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